Strict Parents

STRICT PARENTS Having nonindulgent p bents is both a blessing and a curse. Of lam, I appreciate how they take overt desire something to happen to me, besides Im already 18 age old and I need to unrecorded my life before I affliction it. I know my parents think what is best for me. They probably call for to teach me ab step to the fore discipline and admire for the elders, further thats not what I want to hear, so I hire frustrated. These are the 3 reason wherefore my parents are so relentless. My parents are all overprotective. It sack updidly frustrates me when half the magazine Im never allowed to go anywhere with my jocks, and go to places with pop my parents having to be right next to me.I find they want to protect me because they love me, and I appreciate it, but it rewards to the point when some seasons its scarce ridiculous and over the top. How can I ever get it on myself during vacation if Im never allowed out? Last week my jockstrap Kim invited me to go out and watch plastic film at night time, I asked my parents if I can go watch the moving-picture show with Kim and they just wont permit me go out so I cried that night and just stayed in my room. They wont even let me encounter a boyfriend because their thinking that Im going to get great(predicate) if I sport one. They just begettert trust me on having a bf.When will I ever be free? I know they contain my life a lot (until I went off college). I am their small fry at 18 years old, but deep down very sensible and not rebellious. However, to this day I reach insecurities because of limitations placed on me. They discipline me by imposing a curfew to help me to bring into cosmos a responsible person, but of course it comes with a punishment. for example, when I go out with my friends, they always secern me that I defend to be al-Qaida by 1000, and I earn to obey them and go home on time because when Im not on time there will be a consequence.Last month I went t o my best friends birthday party and I was surprised that my parents allowed me to go out but I have to be home by 1000 pm. I was enjoying my time at the party and I didnt even notice the time and it was 100 am. I looked at my phone my parents have 25 missed call and I knew that Im in trouble. I was grounded for 2 weeks and my florists chrysanthemum confiscated my phone because I didnt answer her phone call. I didnt feel bad because its actually my fault if I was rattling aware of my time I wouldnt be on that piazza and I still love my parents.Most of all, they are strict because of their cultural traditions like when they grew up on their traditional holds and they are kind of doing the same(p) thing to me. My mom used to tell me in the old days they were more(prenominal) strict than today. Their parents dont let them go out without any companion. They had to do their chores every day before they could go out, and their parents also picked the right guy for them and that is se vere because being with a guy that they dont love is totally unfair.I cant imagine placing myself in that situation but my parents are using that rule to me and its so unfair for my part. For example, there was a time that I had to go to my friends birthday party, and my mom wouldnt let me go out without any companion, so I have to bring my cousin with me to be trusted that I went there and didnt go some other place. I baseborn Im old bounteous to go there alone without any companion with me. I just want to do my own thing and just be me. I want to be independent, and my parents just dont get it.My parents are being strict because they are afraid of losing me. As I am their only child its their responsibleness to protect me. Well, to solve this problem I will probably talk to my parents almost them being strict and explain myself to them how am I feeling about them being strict. I will also surface them that I can be a safe(p) daughter, and I will name their trust so that th ey wont be as strict as before. I just want to spicy my life without rules and be a good daughter to them because I love them so much.